blebs

My friend

are you still holding a grudge against someone you know? When do you think you will forgive that person?

There are people in our lives who has done so much hurt to us that we never want to forgive them, but what if that grudge is creating an inconvenience in our lives? that we have to walk a different route to avoid them?

I think most people often forget, forgiving isn't the same as forgetting, and forgiving is not the same as trusting them again. we can forgive someone and never trust them again. forgiving is for our own peace of mind and convenience in life, it will not put our feelings in danger.

We are all human, so we are all capable of making mistakes and hurting people's feeling in the process. sometimes we don't mean to, other times our anger took over us and we intentionally do it. Time passes and we regret what we did, should we be too ashamed to go and apologize? and leave that hole in our life there forever?

Take this moment and consider how bad the mistake was, and reconnect with an old friend who has done hurt to you, or were hurt by you..